I feel kinda really weird doing this, but i have to get it off my chest. So if u think this is really low, just don’t comment.
Ok this might happen to a lot of people. But i just can’t put up with it any longer.
I have a friend, i’ve known her for 6 years. She’s just one of those lucky people, who ALWAYS have things go there way. She doesn’t even have to stress about it or try, and there it is. She’s a very smart person, like she has a gifted brain or something. I’ve known her since year 7, she never studied for a test or an exam, she never did her homework and NEVER got into trouble for doing or not doing something. She got over 90% in most of her subjects every year> without studying.
I’m completely the opposite, i try my hardest to do my best. I always studied hard, did what i was supposed to do and if there was something i didn’t get or was behind at, i worried a lot. Because i knew for a fact that things never go my way. In fact, they go in the opposite direction.
But not this girl!! She always gets what she wants, without even having to ask for it. For example: if she hasn’t done her homwork, the teacher won’t check it that day. If she’s hasn’t studied for a test> it will get postponed.
A classic example is that, one day we both applied for the same job on the same day. My interview was on wednesday and hers on thursday. The difference was that i REALLY seriously wanted that job and she was just applying for it as a ‘joke’. According to the recruitment staff, i had a ‘lot of experience and a good record’. I arrived for my interview, naturally a bit nervous but prepared. She FORGOT to go to her interview and didn’t even bother informing them that she forgot, so the next day she turns up and gives her interview. And guess who got the job??? Not me…..!
That was when it really got to me!
She has no experience whatsoever, she wasn’t serious about the job, she didn’t even turn up for her interview when she was supposed to, and SHE got the job!
Just made me feel like a loser for the 10000 time!
I know she’s my friend and i love her and everything, just things like these are really starting to bother me now. I’m just so sick of her doing nothing because she knows luck’s always on her side and she takes advantage of that! I’ve tried doing everything and trying my best> it gets me no where .I’ve also tried HER way of not caring> but nothing happens.
I’m not trying to compete with her, i just wanna know what am i doing wrong and why is life treats ppl like this??
Has anyone else gone through or is going through this?
And if so HOW THE HELL DO U DEAL WITH IT????
Like is there anything we can do to stop this or at least stop making ourselves feel like S%$#??
i really can’t take it anymore.